My brother is suffering through a relationship with a narcissistic personality. You don't see a light shined on this issue as willingly, when females are the abusers, but it's an absolute, 100% reality. My brother is in marriage counseling now, and he's extremely reluctant to tell the truth and expose her abuse to their therapist. I was also bullied by a women in management who "showed me who she was" enough to inspire me to report her 3 times. This applies to every gender.