These types of men are almost completely ignored in today's world. It seems a significant number of women don't even believe that this type of person exists because they've been convinced that ALL MEN are broken, sexual predators, who need to be "fixed". There's almost no demand for the type of person you're describing, because most people don't acknowledge that their quiet, unassuming ways are of any value. Consequently, our shallow society will produce less men who possess these qualities.